I like to think that I play more defensive and reactionary which I am but, early on I feel like with Nami I have to force myself to play aggressive and take control of the lane (unless I'm into Blitzcrank or something). When you poke with Ebb and Flow you'll very often heal yourself. You can Ebb and Flow then usually get in one or two auto-attacks doing pretty good damage.

I often try to play to my allies strengths, ask them in champion select or early game how they would like to play the lane out. Sometimes it's better using Ebb and Flow on your ally to bounce onto the enemy or I can play aggressive early then back off a little once I have a good amount of mana and they're half-ish HP.

Things won't always go your way and it's important to stay positive, even after a death. When you die and it's fresh in your mind still make sure to acknowledge (but don't kick yourself over) what you could have done better.

Did you walk up too close to try poking the enemy and get jumped on?

Were you out of position trying to ward and then died? or maybe you were warding and your ADC died?

Did you miss the bubble? Keep practicing! :)

Did you not check the scoreboard to see what enemy (or ally) was fed?

Who is their jungler and what can you picture in your head happening? Kayn flying through walls? The new morgana jungle throwing out a snare? Volibear running at you? Nunu flying with a snowball? Viego's invisi-wall thing?

Remember that every game matters, you're getting better each time you play/practice just like any other game or sport.

You got this!! :D

Be the opposite of toxic.

You know that saying, "If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all."? Well, I like to live through the opposite. If you have something nice to say then always say it.

If you like someone's name in champion select then let them know! :)

If you like their champion choice, let them know. I had a poppy jungle pick and I let them know and they did some pretty awesome plays in-game (and I let them know about how I felt about those too).

If someone does something in-game that you like then tell them, "GJ Olaf/Jinx/Gnar/etc" or something encouraging. "That was great", "that was amazing", "ayyyy lets go!!".

In the past, I had gotten so used to being flamed that my playstyle would go drastically down after just one death and that's not cool. Don't be a jerk to others. Not only are you being rude but you're also hurting your chances of winning.